New Year – Old Post
I’ll be away for about a week. Going on a little vacation with a special someone to meet parents and extended family over New Year. It’s huge and I’m more than a little nervous about this. I also have some ideas running around my head for some new posts. The thing is, I’m pretty sure the new post ideas have the potential of causing some discussion, and I don’t want to drop something like that and then be without access for a week.
In the near(ish) future you should expect a post about how I relate to my body, and yeah I’ll talk about sex. There will be a post from my good friend Bizzy-B who is like my sister, but totally unlike me in many ways. I will also continue my musings on guys who like gals like me, why they do (and don’t do) the things they do (and don’t). I’ll also have a post about the contradictions I navigate in my everyday life. But… that’s all going to happen in the new year.
Instead of having a yearly recap or posting my plans and hopes and dreams for the next year, I decided to post an old list of things I miss since I transitioned. Some of these are silly, some are serious, some a surprising – all are true. Yes, I have a list ot things I DON”T miss – that will wait for another day.
Stuff I Miss:
- Walking alone at night
- Pants with actual pockets
- Clothing sizes that actually tell me if something will fit
- Men looking me in the eye when we talk
- Men not taking eye-contact as flirtation
- Not having to explain to banks, credit cards, employers why some of my documentation doesn’t all match up.
- Guys appreciating it when I beat them at a game
- Belching REALLY loudly and nobody saying anything
- Staying friends with guys I’ve had sex with but aren’t currently dating
- Telling guys I’m a bottom..and them respecting that
Laugh RioT 
OMG I love that list!
Cool list! I’ve missed your writing. And, though I know it’s nerdist of me, that picture belies your protestations of geekyness… guess it’s the videogames and the occasional loud belch. ^_^
I LOVE T GIRLS I DONT KNOW ANYONE WHO IS A T GIRL I TRYED TO FINED OUT ON THE INTERNET WHEN I SPLIT UP WITH MY G GIRLFRINED SUM 18 MONTHS A GO COS I DIDENT WANT A GENNETIC GIRLFRIEND I WANTED A T GIRL 15 YEARS AGO BUT I DIDENT HAVE THE INTERNET AND DIDENT KNOW WHERE TO FIND A DATE GO OUT A T GIRL BUT NOW I HAVE MET A GENNETIC GIRL AND HAVE GIVEN UP FINDING A T GIRL TO DATE . COS MOST OF THE WEBSITES I HAVE FOUND ARE T GIRL JUST WANTING SEX , SO WHERE ARE THE DATING WEBSITES THAT ONLY A T GIRL ONLY WANTS TO BE WITH ONLY ONE MAN COS IF I HAD FOND A NICE T GIRL AND FALLEN IN LOVE WITH HER I WOULD HAVE MARRIED HER
ADDING TO WHAT I HAVE SIDE AS ABOVE I HAD TO FIND OUT EVERY THING FOR MY SELF AND I COULDENT TALK TO ANYONE ABOUT IT HOW I FELT I HAVE A FEW GAY FRIENDS BUT DONT SEA THEM OFFEN IF I HAD FOUND MY T GIRL I WOULD HAVE GONE TO HELL AND BACK FOR HER . AND MADE HER HAPPPY FOR BTHE REST OF HER LIFE . I SINCE HAVE FOUND OUT MORE ABOUT T GIRL WEBSITES LIKE THE T GIRL FORUMS . IF IT DOSSENT WORK OUT WITH THIS GENNETIC GIRL I WILL LOOK FOR A T GIRL TO BE WITH FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE
Hello! 🙂
I don’t know of any other way to contact you, so I am trying this. If you wish to contact me, my email is caroldotteateratgmaildotcom.
I have pretty much had it with all the piling-on of trans women on
Bilerico, esp with the implicit and even explicit approval by Bil. I
would like to call for a boycott by trans women, and I wondered how
you would feel about that, and if you would have any advice if you
feel it is a good idea.
Thanks for any input you might have!
Carol 🙂
Hey Miss Riot 🙂
I read all your blog, more or less, a while back. I miss it! I hope you’ll see it in your heart to update again some day… 🙂
Heart
Sophia
Hope you had a great time and looking forward to seeing some updates as it has been a while since we heard from you last. Looking forward to hearing from you soon